Thanksgiving at an Italian-American home, from my experience, has nearly the same menu as any traditional Thanksgiving dinner, but with one slight tweak and two very Italian additions: the lasagna entrée and the desserts.
Like everyone else, we have our turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, mashed potatoes, gravy, yams, pumpkin pie and other traditional accoutrement, but we kick off the meal with some of mamma's lasagna. It's usually the only time all year that we get this lucky, so piling this extra course onto an already enormous meal is no trouble at all. We just have to loosen our belts some more.
Our next tweak is the stuffing. While my mother always stuffs the turkey with a plain stuffing, she always makes an extra batch of cornbread and italian sausage stuffing on the side. A non-Italian friend of mine says that her family also makes the same stuffing—so maybe it's not an Italian tradition, but it's probably safe to say that the Pilgrims didn't use Italian sausage in their stuffing during the first Thanksgiving.
And finally, the dessert. Alongside our pumpkin pie and cheesecake, we'll always have a platter of Italian cookies and pastries that we have flown in from Ferrara Cafe in New York City. The best are the 7-Layer cookies (if you want to try to make them at home, you can find a recipe for these in our blog entry on November 9) and the cannoli.
-Mike